Emotional Intelligence

"Tell us thy troubles and speak freely. A flow of words doth ever ease the heart of sorrows, it is like opening the waste where the mill dam is overfull" pg- 180 Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Coleman- That was a Robinhood quote- The book was hard for me to get through maybe because I don't have enough EQ- I would rather have a high EQ then an IQ- The part that resonated with me was the death dying and grief part where the Oncologists didn't seem to be equipped to deal with patients or family members emotional state during hospice times. I read about that 15 years ago and as a result of this I wanted to open up my own Palliative Care Division for people that were moving onto their next stage. These people don't necessarily need a psychologist but rather an empathetic soul to hear out their grief and turmoil especially the family members. Oncologists cant take on peoples grief, it would become way too overwhelming however their needs to be more grief divisions and counselors to hear people out. Depression and grief is real, it doesn't mean that we need meds, but rather talk therapy. You really find out who your friends are when confronted with these kind of harrowing experiences. The worst kind of feeling is when people become convinced that people really aren't listening. That is where EQ comes into play. My EQ is pretty good but I need help with my restraint of pen and tongue. The reason why AA has such a high success rate is because it becomes a celebration of life in a group setting with people that all have a common bond, ie- suffering. For some people the suffering was 45 years ago and this is how long they have sober. I loath people that are crisis actors and have fake and phony grief because seriously these people need to burn in hell. This is the ultimate sin, because this is making a mockery of something that should be sacred, eternal and real. People that intentionally push buttons are extremely  twisted and don't even deserve an EQ rating. Other crisis actors who get paid to defend the real sick and twisted ones by attempting to legitimize something that is uncontrovertibly fake are mentally disturbed as well. These are the types who deflect and even come across as somewhat legit, their acting is good but not good enough. How do these people even look at themselves in the mirror? Hoax, Black Magic Occult, these people are not even people, they are manipulative con artists and are less then reptilian. Anyway I believe that if we had more grief counselors to help people that have real grief this would help make America great again.